Well so far I haven't had any "terrible" break ups to the point that my ex's have become my "enemies". In fact I made it a point to remain as friends with all of them. So how does loving a person so much can end up in hatred?
To set the record straight, I don't love my ex the way I love a girlfriend anymore. Its just that I've always treated her as family and even though now she's with another guy, I still "love" her just the same.
I wouldn't want to dwell into what we actually argued about, but damn! I was pissed. Maybe to her, as long as I'm not her bf, there's no way she will listen to what I have to say on certain matters. Is it that difficult to believe that your ex does not harbour any "evil" intention and just want you to have a safe and happy life?
If it ever came to a point that I "hate" her, it wouldn't be because of she doesn't love me back or anything like that but because she's was hurt by not heeding my advice. To be honest, I can't see myself hating her at all coz no matter what mistakes she does, I tend to forgive her very easily. I do get angry and we do quarrel but there's always no bad blood. But its at times like this that I realise how easy it can be to hate someone, especially those that you love, because they hurt you.
I have always remembered this : there are 4 things which you can't recover.
- The stone......... after the throw.
- The word.......... after it has been said.
- The occasion........ after the loss.
- The time......... after its gone.
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